Simisola Kosoko, popularly known by her stage name Simi, has dropped a delightful bombshell about the inspiration behind her smash hit “Men Are Crazy,” featuring the equally talented Tiwa Savage. In a recent interview on the popular podcast “Way Up with Angela Yee,” Simi revealed that the song’s catchy central theme – “men are crazy but I still want one in my bed” – was actually a playful suggestion from her husband, the acclaimed singer Adekunle Gold.
The revelation sent shockwaves through the Nigerian music scene and social media, sparking a wave of amusement and intrigue. Men Are Crazy,” released in 2023, became an instant hit, resonating with women for its relatable exploration of the complexities of relationships with men. The song’s playful defiance and tongue-in-cheek honesty resonated with many female listeners, while the collaboration with Tiwa Savage added a layer of star power and sisterhood.
However, Simi’s revelation adds a new dimension to the song. It showcases the collaborative spirit that exists between her and Adekunle Gold, a power couple in the Nigerian music industry. It also highlights the playful dynamic within their relationship, where a seemingly off-hand comment can spark a chart-topping hit.
Speaking on the podcast, Simi elaborated on the creative process. “We were just brainstorming song ideas,” she explained, “and Adekunle jokingly said, ‘Babe, how about we do a song and you say men are crazy but I still want one in my bed?'” Simi, initially taken aback by the suggestion, eventually saw its potential. “I was like, ‘Oh yeah, no one is going to see that coming from me,'” she said. “So I made the song.”
However, the song’s creation wasn’t a one-night inspiration. Simi admitted that after completing two verses, she felt something was missing. It just hit me,” she said, “and I was like, ‘I would love to have Tiwa on the song.'” This desire to collaborate with Tiwa Savage, a powerhouse in her own right, further cemented the song’s potential as an anthem for women.
The song’s success goes beyond catchy lyrics and a powerful collaboration. Men Are Crazy” tapped into a universal truth – the love-hate relationship many women have with men. The song acknowledges the frustrations women experience with men’s “craziness” while simultaneously affirming the desire for love and companionship.
This sentiment resonated deeply with female listeners across Nigeria and beyond. Social media exploded with reactions, with many women sharing their own experiences and praising the song’s honesty. The song’s music video, which depicts a vibrant house party filled with strong, independent women, further solidified its theme of female empowerment.
Simi’s revelation regarding Adekunle Gold’s inspiration for the song adds another layer to the song’s narrative. It highlights the power of collaboration, not just between female artists like Simi and Tiwa Savage, but also within a romantic partnership. It shows how a playful suggestion between spouses can spark a cultural phenomenon.
The revelation has also sparked a lighthearted debate online. Many male fans took to social media, playfully acknowledging the song’s title and expressing their amusement at Adekunle Gold’s role in its creation. Some even joked about needing to “up their game” to live up to the song’s playful indictment of men.
While the song might be seen as playful defiance, it can also be interpreted as a celebration of love’s complexities. “Men Are Crazy” acknowledges the challenges of relationships but ultimately reaffirms the enduring power of love and companionship. In that sense, the song is a testament not only to Simi’s songwriting prowess but also to the enduring strength of love, even in the face of its “craziness.”
As the dust settles from Simi’s revelation, one thing is certain: “Men Are Crazy” has cemented its place as a cultural phenomenon. The song’s catchy tune, relatable lyrics, and powerful collaboration between Simi and Tiwa Savage have ensured its longevity. Now, with the knowledge of Adekunle Gold’s playful spark behind the song’s central theme, “Men Are Crazy” takes on a new layer of intrigue, further solidifying its status as a song that celebrates the complexities of love and relationships.
