Controversial Nigerian street-pop sensation Portable has sparked fresh controversy by publicly airing his marital grievances on social media, accusing his wife Bewaji of emotional withdrawal following his recent reconciliation with former flame Queen Dami.
The “Zazu” hitmaker took to Instagram stories expressing deep frustration over what he perceives as his wife’s changing attitude, particularly lamenting the cessation of her prayers for him and her diminished social media presence regarding their relationship. His emotional outburst raised questions about the stability of their marriage and highlighted the complex dynamics of his relationships.
Everybody dey swear for me. Talking bad about me, make una help me ask my wife sey why she no dey pray for me again?” Portable posted, revealing vulnerability rarely seen from the typically bombastic artist. The singer’s raw emotional appeal continued as he questioned his position in his wife’s life, suggesting her behavior in their shared home has become distant despite their continued cohabitation.
These latest developments mark a stark contrast from just a month ago when Portable publicly celebrated Bewaji, sharing photographs and offering prayers for her continued success and divine grace. This dramatic shift in their relationship’s public presentation has left fans and observers questioning the impact of his recent reconciliation with Queen Dami on his marriage.
The singer’s justification for seeking affection elsewhere has raised eyebrows, as he declared, “As you no dey show me love again, why I no go look for another love.” This statement appears to be a direct response to criticism over his relationship with Queen Dami, while simultaneously serving as a public callout of his wife’s perceived emotional withdrawal.
Further intensifying his position, Portable proclaimed his unwillingness to “beg for love” while having money, suggesting a complex interplay between his financial success and expectations of affection. His declaration that “All women want to die because of me; why I go die because of only one woman?” reveals a perspective on relationships that has consistently stirred controversy throughout his public life.
The couple’s marital journey has been marked by public disputes and reconciliations, notably including a significant Instagram unfollowing incident in May 2023. That episode was triggered by Bewaji’s cryptic post about human ingratitude, which prompted a harsh response from Portable, who claimed she owed her relevance to his name. The situation escalated when Bewaji warned against being pushed “to the wall,” suggesting deeper underlying tensions in their relationship.
Another memorable conflict arose over Bewaji’s birthday caption describing herself as “Queen of Herself,” which led to Portable threatening her position in their matrimonial home. Though she eventually modified the caption to appease him, the incident highlighted the power dynamics and control issues within their relationship.
Adding complexity to the situation is Portable’s expanding family structure. Beyond his two children with Bewaji, the singer has fathered four additional children outside his marriage, including two with upcoming Yoruba actress Ashabi. This web of relationships and responsibilities appears to contribute to the ongoing tensions in his primary relationship.
The singer’s latest outburst, framed as a stance against “stress feelings,” suggests a man struggling to balance his various relationships while maintaining his public image. His declaration that “Happiness Mi Lo Matter” (my happiness is what matters) indicates a prioritization of personal contentment over traditional marital obligations.
As this situation continues to unfold, it raises important questions about the impact of social media on modern marriages, the challenges of maintaining relationships in the public eye, and the complex interplay between traditional marital expectations and contemporary celebrity culture in Nigeria.
The public nature of these marital difficulties continues to captivate audiences while highlighting the often-complicated reality of maintaining personal relationships under the constant scrutiny of social media and public attention.
