Popular Nollywood actor Stan Nze has publicly defended his wife, Blessing Obasi, against online criticism regarding her choice to maintain her maiden name on social media. The incident, which unfolded on Instagram earlier this week, has reignited discussions about marital expectations and celebrity relationships in Nigeria’s entertainment industry.
The controversy began on Tuesday afternoon when Blessing Obasi, an actress and content creator, shared a promotional video for her colleague Wumi Toriola’s movie premiere, “Queen Lateefah.” What started as a routine social media post quickly escalated into a heated debate about marital traditions and personal identity.
An Instagram user, identified as Oriretan Honour, took issue with Obasi’s profile, commenting, “Blessing, it’s unwise not having ‘Nze’, your husband’s surname, on all your social media handles… This speaks volumes about marital respect.”
Within hours of the comment going viral, Stan Nze intervened, responding directly to the critic. “It’s unwise to be in people’s businesses. Please mind your business,” the actor wrote, effectively shutting down the unsolicited advice.
Nze’s response garnered widespread support from fans and fellow celebrities alike. Actress Ini Edo commented, “That’s how you defend your own! Well done, Stan.”_1727346058.jpeg "Nollywood's Stan Nze Defends Wife in Social Media Name Change Controversy 1")
Stan Nze and Blessing Obasi tied the knot in September 2021, in a ceremony that made headlines across Nigerian entertainment news outlets. The couple’s relationship has been a subject of public interest, particularly due to their age difference – Obasi is several years older than Nze.
Age is just a number when it comes to true love,” Nze told reporters at their wedding reception. “Blessing completes me in ways I never imagined possible.”
As with many celebrity couples, the Nzes have faced their share of public scrutiny. In September 2022, on their first wedding anniversary, fans noticed tension between the couple during a surprise celebration.
Stan later addressed the incident in an interview with Entertainment Weekly Nigeria, admitting, “We had argued earlier that day, and neither of us was ready to compromise. It wasn’t the joyous celebration our fans expected, and for that, we apologize.”
Despite the rocky patch, the couple emerged stronger. On their second anniversary in 2023, they delighted fans by announcing they were expecting their first child.
“God’s timing is always perfect,” Blessing shared in an emotional Instagram post, accompanied by a video showcasing her baby bump.
The couple welcomed their son in early 2024, further cementing their bond.
The Nze-Obasi situation highlights the unique challenges faced by celebrity couples in Nigeria. Their every move is scrutinized, often blurring the lines between public persona and private life.
Despite the online controversy, Stan Nze and Blessing Obasi present a united front. Following her husband’s defense, Obasi responded in her native dialect, “My King. Dim Oma,” which translates to “My King. My Husband.”
This exchange not only showcases their strong bond but also their respect for each other’s individuality.
As the dust settles on this social media storm, the incident serves as a reminder of the ongoing negotiation between traditional expectations and modern individuality in Nigerian society.
Stan Nze and Blessing Obasi’s approach to their marriage supporting each other’s choices while navigating public scrutiny may well set a new standard for celebrity relationships in Nollywood and beyond.
