Nigerian actor Saidi Balogun has become the subject of heated discussion on social media after a video surfaced showing him at a memorial event just two weeks following the tragic death of his young daughter, Zeenat. The footage, which was shared on Instagram by @Goldmynevibes on October 19, 2024, captures Balogun at the eight-year remembrance ceremony for Princess Toyin Kolade’s mother.
The appearance of the Nollywood star so soon after the heartbreaking loss of his child has sparked a flurry of mixed reactions from fans and the general public. Many have expressed their sympathies for Balogun’s grief, while others have criticized his decision to attend the event during this period of mourning.
In the video, Balogun can be seen wearing his signature white attire among the attendees, receiving blessings from the women gathered at the graveside. Following the prayers, he is observed leaving the ceremony. The clip quickly went viral, igniting a debate about the appropriateness of his actions and the ways in which individuals cope with loss.
News of Zeenat’s passing on October 5, 2024, had sent shockwaves through the entertainment industry and beyond, with fans and colleagues alike sharing their condolences and support for the grieving father. The sudden loss of a child is an unimaginable tragedy that no parent should have to endure, and many have recognized the immense pain and sorrow that Balogun must be experiencing during this difficult time.
However, the video of his appearance at the memorial has divided opinions, with some questioning the timing of his public outing. Comments on social media have ranged from empathetic to critical, showcasing the complex emotions and expectations surrounding grief and mourning in the public eye.
Instagram user @semzysemzy wrote, “Baba don sharply forget him daughter,” expressing disapproval of Balogun’s actions. Another user, @adunni3435, went further, suggesting, “Don’t mind him… His daughter’s death is not even up to one month he has already going to party already.. who knows if he use his daughter as sacrifice (pledge) in there secret cult memberships.. coz nowadays I notice he wear white like that mama Toyin kolade.
On the other hand, many have come to Balogun’s defense, emphasizing that everyone grieves differently and that it is not for others to dictate how he should mourn. @Abayomi7422 commented, “May you never go through what he went through, people grief different ways,” while @I_am_favourite_ offered support, writing, “Very strong man💔 rip zeenat.
The loss of a child is a deeply personal and devastating experience, and it is crucial to remember that there is no right or wrong way to grieve. While some may find solace in solitude and private mourning, others may seek comfort in the company of loved ones and the continuation of daily life. It is not for outsiders to pass judgment on how an individual chooses to cope with such profound pain.
As the discussion surrounding Balogun’s appearance at the memorial continues, it is important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding. The path of grief is a long and winding one, and each person must navigate it in their own way. In this time of unimaginable sorrow, what Balogun and his family need most is support, compassion, and the space to mourn and heal as they see fit.
The tragedy of Zeenat’s passing is a reminder of the fragility of life and the importance of cherishing every moment with our loved ones. As the Nigerian entertainment community and fans around the world continue to offer their condolences and support, may Saidi Balogun and his family find the strength and peace they need to carry on in the face of such heartbreaking loss.
