Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday took to Instagram today to celebrate her boyfriend Xxssive’s birthday. The actress, known for her vibrant personality both on and off-screen, shared photos of her beau dressed in a dapper suit, accompanied by a playful and loving message that has set social media abuzz.
As the sun rose over Lagos this morning, Nkechi’s Instagram feed lit up with images of Xxssive looking sharp in a tailored suit. The actress couldn’t resist a playful jab at her partner’s formal attire, quipping, “Men in suits. Bros abeg na wedding you dey do or Birthday?” Her lighthearted tone set the stage for a birthday celebration that blends humor with genuine affection.
Nkechi’s post continued with heartfelt wishes: “Anyways happy birthday to a special being, My only headache. Wishing you nothing but God’s unending blessings on this day and beyond, have a mega blast.” The actress’s choice of words, describing Xxssive as her “only headache,” resonated with fans who appreciate the couple’s playful dynamic.
Nkechi and Xxssive’s relationship has been a subject of public interest since it began, following the actress’s highly publicized break-up with an Ekiti-state politician. The couple’s journey has been marked by public displays of affection and mutual support, offering a glimpse into their growing bond.
As the couple approaches their third anniversary, Nkechi has been vocal about the positive impact Xxssive has had on her life. In June of last year, she praised him for helping her evolve into a “grown woman,” setting a standard she believes other men should aspire to.
Last month, ahead of their anniversary, Nkechi shared a poignant message with her fans about love, encouraging them to “make a home anywhere they find happiness.” This sentiment reflects the actress’s journey to find contentment in her relationship with Xxssive, whom she affectionately calls her “joy giver.
In July, following the high-profile weddings of celebrities Davido and Sharon Ooja, Nkechi revealed she was ready for marriage. The actress playfully pondered potential wedding hashtags for herself and Xxssive, expressing that “love is sweet and a beautiful thing.”
Lagos-based wedding planner Oluwaseun Adeyemi shares her thoughts: “Celebrity weddings often set trends in Nigeria. If Nkechi and Xxssive decide to tie the knot, it could be one of the most anticipated events in Nollywood this year.
Nkechi has not shied away from addressing critics who have commented on the age difference between her and Xxssive. In a bold move, she shared a video of her younger partner surprising her with flowers and money, captioning it with a defense of her choice to date younger men.
Social media influencer Tunde Ednut weighs in: “Nkechi’s openness about her relationship challenges societal norms. It’s refreshing to see a woman in Nollywood confidently pursue happiness on her own terms.
The actress has also been clear about her expectations regarding her relationship. In a recent statement, she laid out ground rules for her female friends, prohibiting them from getting too close to Xxssive or dating her ex-boyfriends.
Relationship counselor Funmi Adewale offers insight: “Setting clear boundaries is crucial in any relationship, especially for public figures. Nkechi’s directness may seem unconventional, but it demonstrates a commitment to protecting her relationship.”
Nkechi and Xxssive’s relationship is emblematic of the evolving landscape of personal lives in Nollywood. As actors become more open about their relationships, fans are granted unprecedented access to their favorite stars’ personal lives.
As Xxssive celebrates his birthday today, the couple’s future looks bright. Their relationship continues to capture the public’s imagination, offering a blend of entertainment and inspiration to fans across Nigeria and beyond.
Whether wedding bells are in their immediate future or not, Nkechi and Xxssive’s journey serves as a testament to finding love and happiness in the public eye. As they navigate the challenges of a high-profile relationship, their story continues to unfold, one Instagram post at a time.
