Controversial Nigerian singer Portable has publicly confronted his girlfriend, Queen Dami, the former wife of the late Alaafin of Oyo, in a heated social media exchange that has exposed personal tensions and complex relationships within their circle.
The confrontation began when Queen Dami shared what appeared to be an innocuous motivational message on her Instagram page, stating, “The best revenge is getting prettier, smarter, doing better than before, and becoming the highest version of yourself. It’s only you vs you.” This seemingly innocent post triggered an unexpected and fierce response from the outspoken musician.
Portable, known for his unfiltered commentary and controversial statements, launched into a scathing critique of Queen Dami, accusing her of disrupting his business operations. In a particularly pointed comment, he claimed she had caused female employees to flee from his establishment, significantly impacting his bar’s operations. The singer didn’t stop there, escalating the situation by bringing up personal matters involving Queen Dami’s child from her previous marriage to the late Alaafin of Oyo.
No be you be first, so no be you go be last,” Portable declared in his characteristic style, adding that he had been responsible for caring for her son from her previous marriage to the late monarch. He expressed frustration at what he perceived as a lack of appreciation for his efforts, stating, “No be me dey help you take care of your son wey you born for late King. Still you no dey appreciate.”
The public spat has drawn considerable attention, particularly given the high-profile nature of both parties involved. Queen Dami’s previous marriage to the late Alaafin of Oyo adds an extra layer of complexity to the situation. Her marriage to the revered monarch had ended following alleged violations of palace protocols, leading to her departure from the royal household. Despite attempts at reconciliation, the relationship remained strained until the monarch’s passing last year.
This latest controversy comes on the heels of another recent public dispute involving Portable and his fourth baby mama, Ashabi, just two weeks prior. In that instance, the singer had made serious allegations about Ashabi’s motives, claiming she had children with him purely for fame and accused her of interfering with his marriage through behind-the-scenes manipulation.
The relationship between Portable and Queen Dami has its own interesting history. The singer had previously confirmed their involvement, noting that their relationship began after the passing of the Alaafin, emphasizing that she was initially just a fan before their relationship evolved into something more personal.
This public fallout has reignited discussions about the complexities of modern relationships, particularly those involving public figures with complicated past relationships. The situation is further complicated by the traditional and modern cultural dynamics at play, given Queen Dami’s previous position as a royal wife and her current relationship with a popular musician.
The incident has sparked widespread social media discussion, with many observers noting the increasingly public nature of personal disputes among Nigerian celebrities. Some commentators have pointed out how social media has transformed private disagreements into public spectacles, often with unforeseen consequences for all parties involved.
As this story continues to develop, it highlights the ongoing challenges of managing personal relationships in the public eye, particularly when they involve individuals from different social spheres – in this case, the intersection of traditional royalty, contemporary entertainment, and modern social media culture.
The controversy also sheds light on the evolving nature of traditional institutions and modern relationships in Nigerian society, as well as the role of social media in shaping public discourse around personal matters. As both parties continue to navigate this public dispute, their situation serves as a compelling example of how personal relationships and public personas can collide in today’s interconnected world.
