Singer Burna Boy, real name Damini Ogulu, recently took a subtle jab at his colleague Davido’s marital status. The comments came after a fan suggested Burna Boy follow in Davido’s footsteps and settle down soon.
Fan’s Prompt Ignites Social Media Firestorm
The drama unfolded on Burna Boy’s X page (similar to Instagram). A fan, using the handle @BadLieutenant, urged Burna Boy to prioritize his future by getting married and starting a family. The user cited Davido, fondly called OBO (an acronym for Omo Baba Olowo, meaning “son of a wealthy man”), as an example, stating, “Davido has already set an example. You’re over 33 now, and you need to understand that you’re not getting any younger.”
Burna Boy’s Response Raises Eyebrows
Burna Boy’s response was short but impactful. He politely declined the suggestion, implying a preference for his current lifestyle. He wrote, “Baba make I just dey as I dey abeg, u nor see wetin him dey face like dis?” (Translation: “Man, please let me just stay as I am, don’t you see what he’s going through right now?”). This comment sparked widespread speculation, with fans dissecting the meaning behind his words.
Decoding Burna Boy’s Message: What Did He Really Mean?
While Burna Boy refrained from explicitly mentioning the details, it’s widely understood that he was alluding to Davido’s recent marital struggles. Davido’s high-profile relationship with Chioma Avril Rowland has been under intense media scrutiny. Their lavish traditional wedding in 2018 was hailed as a fairytale, but cracks began to show publicly in 2021.
Davido has faced ongoing challenges regarding child custody with his ex-partner Sophia Momodu, with whom he shares a daughter, Imade. The recent tragic death of his son, Ifeanyi, with Chioma, further compounded the singer’s personal struggles.
Many fans interpreted Burna Boy’s comment as him highlighting the complexities of Davido’s current situation, suggesting it wasn’t an ideal example of marital bliss.
The Simmering Rivalry: Burna Boy vs. Davido
The exchange also reignited discussions about the rumored rivalry between Burna Boy and Davido. Both artists are at the forefront of Afrobeats, achieving international recognition and amassing dedicated fan bases. Their social media interactions have often been interpreted as veiled jabs at each other, fueling speculation about a competitive dynamic.
Burna Boy’s comment, while seemingly innocuous, adds another layer to this perceived rivalry. Some fans saw it as a playful dig at Davido’s personal life, while others viewed it as a more serious critique of his decision to settle down.
“Adekunle Gold is a Better Example”: Burna Boy Suggests an Alternative
The conversation took another interesting turn when another fan, @RealDreylo, questioned Burna Boy’s response. In a lighthearted tone, the user asked, “But between me and you, Shey na betta example the guy use?” (Translation: “But between you and me, is that a good example he used?”).
Burna Boy’s reply offered a surprising endorsement of another Afrobeats artist. He responded, “Ehen! Na wetin we dey pray for be that bros.” (Translation: “Exactly! That’s what we’re praying for, bro”). This seemingly pointed towards Adekunle Gold, who is known for his successful marriage to singer Simi, as a more desirable role model in terms of marital bliss.
Beyond the Shade: A Conversation About Marriage and Success
While the social media exchange has a playful and gossipy undercurrent, it also sparks a more nuanced conversation. Burna Boy’s comment highlights the complex relationship between marriage, success, and public image, particularly for celebrities.
His preference for remaining single doesn’t diminish his achievements. It simply challenges the notion that marriage is a necessary marker of success, especially for a male artist.
The exchange also underscores the diverse experiences of love and relationships within the Afrobeats scene. Davido’s situation may not be ideal, but it doesn’t represent the only path to happiness for his peers.
