Nollywood actress Omobolarinde Akinyanju, professionally known as Ashabi, has made an unexpected plea for peace amidst her tumultuous relationship with controversial singer Portable, choosing to rise above the ongoing public drama that has characterized their relationship.
The actress, who shares a child with the “Zazoo Zeh” crooner as his fourth baby mama, took to Instagram with a message that stands in stark contrast to the heated exchanges that have dominated headlines in recent weeks. “Please, lovers of Ashabi, simply let love & peace reign in the comment section,” she wrote, emphasizing her desire for a more positive discourse surrounding her personal life.
This call for peace comes on the heels of Portable’s recent social media tirade, where the singer made several inflammatory accusations against Ashabi. Among his controversial claims, he alleged that her pursuit of fame motivated her decision to have his child, and in a particularly pointed attack, made derogatory comments about her physical appearance. The singer didn’t stop there, accusing her of attempting to disrupt his marriage through backdoor communications with his wife.
The complex dynamics of their relationship have played out like a public soap opera since its inception. Their history is marked by periodic conflicts, reconciliations, and renewed tensions, creating a cycle that has kept social media audiences engaged but has presumably taken its toll on all parties involved. A particularly notable incident occurred in June when Portable publicly accused Ashabi of attempting to manipulate his marriage by approaching his wife with claims of stepping away from their relationship, all while expecting his child.
The situation grew more complicated in January when an interview given by Ashabi about their relationship triggered Portable’s ire, leading to him publicly relegating her status to that of a “side chick.” This pattern of public confrontations followed by brief periods of reconciliation has become a familiar narrative in their relationship.
However, what makes this latest development particularly intriguing is Ashabi’s measured response to the ongoing drama. Rather than engaging in a war of words or returning the public criticism, she has chosen to position herself as a “Queen of Peace,” a stance that has garnered both support and skepticism from followers. When one fan suggested she would eventually return to Portable despite his monthly outbursts, Ashabi’s response was notably candid: she revealed she had never left in the first place.
The actress’s latest appeal goes beyond simply calling for peace; it represents a mature approach to handling public relationship conflicts in the age of social media. Her request that fans “Don’t fight for me, just show me love” demonstrates an understanding of how social media engagement can often escalate tensions rather than resolve them.
Adding another layer to this complex situation is Portable’s latest threat to impregnate one of Ashabi’s friends, a declaration that seems designed to provoke a reaction but has been met with the actress’s continued calls for peace. This dynamic highlights the challenges faced by public figures in managing personal relationships under the constant scrutiny of social media.
The ongoing saga between Portable and Ashabi reflects broader themes in contemporary Nigerian entertainment culture, where personal relationships often become public spectacles, fueled by social media engagement and public commentary. Their situation raises important questions about the impact of public scrutiny on personal relationships and the role of social media in either escalating or defusing relationship conflicts.
As this story continues to unfold, Ashabi’s call for peace and positive engagement stands as a noteworthy example of how public figures might choose to handle personal conflicts in the digital age. Whether this approach will lead to lasting peace between the parties involved remains to be seen, but it certainly offers an alternative to the typical pattern of public confrontations that often characterize celebrity relationships in crisis.
The situation continues to evolve, but Ashabi’s stance suggests that sometimes the most powerful response to public drama is choosing not to engage in it at all, instead focusing on fostering positive interactions and maintaining personal dignity in the face of public scrutiny.
