Gospel music sensation Tope Alabi has penned an emotional tribute to her husband and producer, Soji Alabi, as he celebrates another year of life. The award-winning Nigerian gospel artist took to her Instagram page to share her deep appreciation for the man she affectionately calls “My Pope.”
In her touching birthday message, Tope described her husband as her “choice now and forever,” highlighting the unwavering nature of their commitment despite past challenges that once threatened to overshadow their relationship. You have been a very solid pillar of support, backbone, Teacher, Prophet, Friend, and a lot more to me,” she wrote, emphasizing the multifaceted role he plays in both her personal life and professional career.
The gospel minister expressed profound gratitude for their meeting, writing, “I thank God for the day I met you, and I’m happy to share life with you.” Her message conveyed a sense of divine orchestration in their union, which has withstood various storms throughout their years together in Nigeria’s competitive music industry.
Tope’s birthday wishes for her husband included prayers for his continued growth and prosperity: “HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you, Sir. I pray that as you step into this new phase, it is accompanied by great wisdom, increase on all sides, peace and God’s goodness all around you. God will continually bless and keep you for me. I celebrate you greatly today, and I want to say I love you so much, My Pope Olusoji John Alabi.”
The couple’s relationship has been a subject of public interest over the years, particularly following a paternity controversy that emerged some time back. The scandal erupted when one Mayegun Olaoye claimed to be the biological father of Tope’s daughter, Ayomikun, alleging that the gospel singer had prevented him from knowing his biological daughter for over two decades.
However, Ayomikun herself decisively addressed these claims in an interview with PUNCH newspaper, firmly stating that Soji Alabi is the only father she recognizes. This public declaration by her daughter seemed to strengthen Tope’s resolve to celebrate her husband openly, particularly during significant milestones like birthdays.
The birthday celebration comes shortly after a curious revelation from veteran Nigerian actor Olaiya Igwe, who recently disclosed his lingering regret about disappointing the Alabis on their wedding day. According to Olaiya, he had promised to lend his newly purchased Mercedes-Benz V-Boot for their wedding but failed to fulfill this promise. Despite seeking forgiveness from the couple, the actor confessed that he still carries guilt over the incident, especially considering how life’s circumstances have since reversed for him.
Soji’s influence on Tope’s career cannot be overstated. As her producer and manager, he has been instrumental in crafting the sound that has made her one of Nigeria’s most celebrated gospel artists. Their professional partnership has yielded numerous hit songs that continue to minister to millions across Africa and beyond.
Beyond their working relationship, Tope has occasionally offered glimpses into their personal life through social media. In a previous post that featured a throwback photo of the couple, she reflected on their marital journey while offering advice to younger followers: “Never run ahead of your God,” she cautioned, suggesting that divine timing played a crucial role in their union.
This counsel from Tope resonates deeply with her predominant audience of Christian followers, who look to the gospel minister not only for musical inspiration but also for guidance on navigating life’s challenges, particularly in marriage. Her openness about both the joys and challenges of marriage has endeared her to fans who appreciate her authenticity.
The Alabis represent a notable example of a successful partnership in Nigeria’s entertainment industry, where personal relationships often face intense public scrutiny and unique pressures. Their ability to maintain both personal and professional boundaries while nurturing their marriage has become something of a template for other couples in the spotlight.
Soji, though less visible in public compared to his wife, has earned respect in the industry for his production skills and business acumen. His behind-the-scenes role has allowed Tope to flourish creatively while he manages the operational aspects of their ministry.
The couple’s enduring relationship also stands as testimony to the values Tope espouses in her music – faith, commitment, and divine guidance. Many of her songs touch on themes of God’s faithfulness through life’s challenges, a message that appears to be drawn from personal experience.
For her millions of fans across Nigeria and the African diaspora, Tope’s public celebration of her husband reinforces her image as an artist whose personal life aligns with the spiritual messages in her music. This congruence between public profession and private practice has contributed significantly to her credibility as a gospel minister.
As Soji celebrates his birthday surrounded by the love and appreciation of his wife, their story continues to inspire many who look to them as examples of resilience and commitment in marriage. Through public controversies and private challenges, the couple’s bond appears to have grown stronger, embodying the very themes of divine sustenance that characterize Tope’s musical repertoire.
Their journey together – as husband and wife, artist and producer, minister and manager – continues to unfold as a testament to their shared faith and mutual support, qualities that Tope clearly treasures as she celebrates the man she fondly calls “My Pope.”
