Controversial Lagos car dealer Ikechukwu Ogbonna, popularly known as IVD, has once again stirred the pot on social media, this time with a loved-up video celebrating his relationship with businesswoman and social media personality Blessing CEO. The video, shared on International Women’s Day, was intended to honor the women in his life, but it quickly drew mixed reactions from netizens, with some praising the gesture and others criticizing the couple’s public display of affection.
The video, which features IVD and Blessing CEO dressed in matching white outfits, shows the pair smiling, laughing, and sharing tender moments. While many fans described the couple as “goals” and applauded IVD for celebrating his partner on a day dedicated to women, others were less impressed. One particularly viral comment described the duo as looking like “servers at a party,” sparking a wave of humorous and critical responses across social media platforms.
IVD, who has been at the center of numerous controversies in recent years, including allegations of domestic violence following the tragic death of his late wife, Bimbo Ogbonna, has often used social media to share glimpses of his personal life. His relationship with Blessing CEO, a self-proclaimed relationship coach and social media influencer, has been a subject of intense scrutiny, with many questioning the authenticity of their bond.
The International women’s Day video, set to a romantic soundtrack, was captioned with a heartfelt message from IVD: “To the strong, resilient, and amazing women in my life, especially my queen @blessingceo, thank you for your love and support. Happy International Women’s Day!” While the post was meant to celebrate women, it inadvertently reignited debates about IVD’s past and the nature of his relationship with Blessing CEO.
The video quickly went viral, with reactions ranging from admiration to outright criticism. Some fans praised the couple for their chemistry and the effort to celebrate love on a significant day. “This is so beautiful. Love is a beautiful thing, and it’s nice to see IVD happy again,” one fan commented. Another wrote, “Blessing CEO is glowing, and IVD looks so proud. Love wins!”
However, not everyone was convinced. Critics accused the couple of staging the video for attention, with some pointing out the irony of IVD celebrating women given the controversies surrounding his past. “This man has a history of domestic violence, and now he’s posting lovey-dovey videos? Make it make sense,” one user wrote. Another added, “They look like servers at a party. This is all for show.”
The “servers at a party” comment, in particular, became a trending topic, with many users creating memes and jokes about the couple’s matching outfits and the overall aesthetic of the video. Despite the criticism, IVD and Blessing CEO seemed unfazed, with both sharing the video on their respective pages and responding to fans with messages of gratitude and love.
Blessing CEO, known for her outspoken nature and controversial takes on relationships, has been a polarizing figure in her own right. Since going public with her relationship with IVD, she has faced backlash from those who believe she is complicit in whitewashing his image. However, she has consistently defended their relationship, describing IVD as a changed man who deserves a second chance.
In a recent interview, Blessing CEO addressed the criticism, stating, “People love to judge without knowing the full story. IVD has been through a lot, and so have I. We found solace in each other, and that’s all that matters. Let people talk; we are happy.”
Her unwavering support for IVD has earned her both admiration and condemnation, with some applauding her loyalty and others accusing her of enabling problematic behavior. Regardless of where one stands on the issue, it’s clear that Blessing CEO is unapologetic about her choices and determined to stand by her man.
While IVD’s video was intended to celebrate International Women’s Day, some argue that it inadvertently shifted the focus away from the day’s true purpose: honoring the achievements and struggles of women worldwide. Critics pointed out that the video seemed more about showcasing his relationship than paying tribute to the women who have impacted his life.
“International Women’s Day is about uplifting women, not posting loved-up videos with your girlfriend,” one user commented. Another added, “This feels performative. If he really wanted to celebrate women, he could have highlighted the women in his family or shared a message of empowerment.”
Despite the backlash, others argued that IVD’s gesture, while imperfect, was still a form of celebration. “Love is a powerful thing, and if he’s happy with Blessing CEO, then good for him. Let’s not take away from the fact that he’s trying to do something positive,” one fan wrote.
The mixed reactions to IVD’s video highlight the complexities of navigating public perception, especially for individuals with controversial pasts. While some are willing to forgive and move on, others remain skeptical, viewing such gestures as attempts to rewrite narratives or gain sympathy.
For IVD and Blessing CEO, the video was likely meant to showcase their happiness and resilience in the face of adversity. However, it also serves as a reminder that public figures are often held to higher standards, and their actions are subject to intense scrutiny.
IVD’s loved-up video with Blessing CEO on International Women’s Day has sparked a wide range of reactions, from admiration to criticism. While some see it as a celebration of love and resilience, others view it as a publicity stunt that detracts from the day’s true purpose.
Regardless of where one stands on the issue, the video has undeniably reignited conversations about IVD’s past, the nature of his relationship with Blessing CEO, and the broader implications of public displays of affection in the age of social media. As the couple continues to navigate their relationship in the public eye, one thing is certain: they will remain a topic of discussion, for better or worse.
In the end, the video serves as a reminder that love, like life, is complicated—and that, in the age of social media, even the most personal moments are subject to public interpretation. Whether they look like “servers at a party” or a couple deeply in love, IVD and Blessing CEO have once again proven that they are unafraid to live their truth, no matter the cost.
