Rising tensions have emerged in the Nigerian entertainment scene as Nollywood actress Ashabi’s Christmas family photos noticeably excluded controversial singer Portable, sparking fresh speculation about their tumultuous relationship. The actress, whose full name is Omobolarinde Akinyanju, shared heartwarming holiday pictures featuring herself and her children, including their recently welcomed second child.
The social media posts, which appeared on Ashabi’s Instagram page, featured touching seasonal messages. May this Holiday Season sparkle and shine, and may all your wishes and dreams come true,” wrote the actress alongside images of herself with their children, notably mentioning “@fitilamihan_atandaogo Irorunloluwa Ayoyomi.” The conspicuous absence of Portable prompted one fan to comment humorously, “Where is Portable na? Na juju and Sango costume he go wear,” referencing the singer’s notorious flamboyant style choices.
This latest development adds another chapter to what has been a year of public drama between the entertainment personalities. Their relationship has weathered numerous public storms throughout 2023, with October marking a particularly dramatic period when Portable publicly criticized Ashabi after she described herself as a peaceful person. The singer made controversial claims about her motivations, suggesting she pursued a relationship with him for fame and even made disparaging remarks about her physical appearance.
The couple’s relationship history reads like a soap opera script, filled with reconciliations and falling-outs. A significant conflict arose in June when Portable accused Ashabi of attempting to interfere with his marriage by contacting his wife, despite being pregnant with his child at the time. Earlier in January, tensions flared when Ashabi gave a media interview about their relationship, prompting an angry response from Portable, who reminded her of her position as a “side chick.
Despite the recurring public disputes, Ashabi has maintained a relatively composed stance. When faced with speculation about their relationship status, she has often chosen to respond with dignity. In one notable instance, when a fan suggested she would eventually return to Portable despite his “monthly drama,” Ashabi simply stated that she “never left,” indicating the complex nature of their connection.
The current situation reflects broader themes in modern celebrity relationships, where social media plays a significant role in both documenting and sometimes escalating personal conflicts. Ashabi’s Christmas photos and messages, while seemingly innocent, have inadvertently highlighted the ongoing complications in her relationship with Portable, particularly regarding their roles as co-parents.
The actress’s holiday posts emphasized family values and peace, with one message reading, “From my family to yours, May the true meaning of Christmas bring you peace, love, and joy. Wishing you a blessed holiday season.” This focus on peace and family stands in stark contrast to the public drama that has characterized her relationship with Portable throughout the year.
A particularly revealing aspect of their dynamic emerged during one of Portable’s recent outbursts, where he warned Ashabi against communicating with his wife behind his back. He claimed that such interactions consistently led to problems in his marriage, escalating to the point where he threatened to retaliate by impregnating one of her friends.
The ongoing saga between Portable and Ashabi highlights the challenges of maintaining personal relationships in the public eye, especially within Nigeria’s dynamic entertainment industry. Their story continues to captivate audiences, demonstrating how social media and celebrity culture can transform private matters into public discourse.
As the year draws to a close, this latest episode suggests that the relationship between these two entertainment figures remains as complicated as ever, with their personal lives continuing to generate significant public interest and discussion within Nigerian popular culture.