Nollywood actress and comedienne Adeyela Adebola, popularly known as Lizzy Jay, has demonstrated she won’t tolerate online harassment after delivering a scathing response to a social media user who body-shamed her.
The incident unfolded when Lizzy Jay shared content on her Instagram page, only to receive a comment from a female follower who described her as “dry.” The actress wasted no time in confronting what she perceived as unwarranted criticism, taking screenshots of the troll’s profile pictures and launching a powerful counterattack that has since gained significant attention across social media platforms.
“Don’t come to my page looking like a rejected sacrifice and think you can troll me,” Lizzy Jay wrote in her response, which has resonated with many of her fans who praised her for standing up against cyberbullying.
In her extensive response, the actress highlighted what she saw as hypocrisy in the commenter’s behavior. She pointed out that while the troll was quick to criticize her appearance, the woman herself appeared to be neglecting personal fitness. Your mates are in the gym, trying to get fit, and you are here with your shapeless body, looking like a dead toad, calling someone else ‘dry’,” the actress fired back.
The exchange has sparked conversations about the nature of social media interactions and the prevalence of body shaming in online spaces. Lizzy Jay’s response, though harsh, represents the growing trend of celebrities refusing to remain silent in the face of online harassment.
I would rather be dry than look like you,” Lizzy continued in her post, addressing the troll directly by her username @jaiyeadewunmi. She didn’t hold back in her critique, questioning whether the commenter ever looks in the mirror and suggesting she should reconsider her clothing choices given her body type.
The incident has highlighted the double-edged sword of social media fame, where public figures must constantly navigate between maintaining an approachable online presence and protecting themselves from unwarranted attacks. For many celebrities like Lizzy Jay, establishing clear boundaries with followers has become essential for mental wellbeing.
Industry observers note that female entertainers in particular often face disproportionate criticism regarding their physical appearance. This pattern of behavior has led many actresses and female public figures to adopt a zero-tolerance policy toward body-shaming comments.
Lizzy Jay’s response seems to follow this emerging approach of meeting fire with fire. Rather than ignoring the negative comment or responding with positivity, she chose to confront her critic directly and personally. “Look at your legs, sis; look at your arms; someone with an arm as big as yours shouldn’t be wearing ‘armless clothes,'” she wrote, turning the critique back on her attacker.
The actress concluded her message with a series of rhetorical questions directed at the troll: “Do you even look at yourself in the mirror at all? You sef do you like what you see? Are you proud of the fat pig you see in the mirror?”
This incident is not isolated in the Nigerian entertainment industry, where social media has created unprecedented access between fans and celebrities. The direct communication channels have removed traditional barriers, allowing followers to engage directly with their favorite stars – sometimes crossing boundaries of respect and decency.
For Lizzy Jay, who has built her career not only as an actress but also as a comedienne, maintaining her public image is crucial to her professional success. Her strong reaction demonstrates her unwillingness to allow negative comments to affect her brand or self-esteem.
Mental health experts have noted that continuous exposure to negative comments can take a significant toll on public figures. Many celebrities have spoken out about the impact of cyberbullying on their psychological wellbeing, with some taking breaks from social media or limiting their engagement to preserve their mental health.
As social media continues to evolve, many platforms have introduced tools to help users filter abusive comments and restrict interaction with problematic accounts. However, the responsibility often still falls on the individual to monitor and address negative interactions.
Fans of Lizzy Jay have rallied around the actress, praising her direct approach to confronting online harassment. Many commented that her response would serve as a deterrent to others who might consider leaving similar comments on her page or targeting other celebrities.
This incident serves as a reminder of the complex relationship between celebrities and their online followers in the digital age. While social media provides unprecedented opportunities for connection and engagement, it also creates spaces where disrespect and harassment can flourish if left unchecked.
As Lizzy Jay’s experience demonstrates, the days when celebrities were expected to silently endure criticism or abuse from the public may be coming to an end. Instead, many are choosing to establish clear boundaries and respond directly to those who cross them, sending a message that respect must be maintained even in virtual interactions.
