Nigerian singer Ruger recently shared his thoughts on the dynamics of relationships and friendship within the music industry, emphasizing the detrimental role of jealousy. In a candid conversation on the Bahd And Boujee Podcast with co-hosts Tolanibaj and Moet Abebe, the artist highlighted that the absence of envy is crucial for the sustainability of any relationship in the industry.
Ruger, known for his distinct voice and hit singles, pointed out that the nature of the individuals involved plays a significant role in whether jealousy becomes an issue. “I feel like it all depends on the kind of people they are. For example, if I’m not the kind of person that is generally envious, then I can’t be envious of my fellow artistes,” he stated. He further explained his personal stance on supporting his peers, irrespective of his own position in the music scene, as a testament to his belief that personal character is a determining factor in overcoming envy.
Discussing the presence of cliques within the Nigerian music industry, Ruger admitted to not being particularly aware or involved in any, preferring to see himself as an independent entity. “I’m a clique by myself,” he declared, suggesting a level of self-sufficiency and focus on his own journey rather than getting entangled in potentially divisive groups.
The singer also touched on the unity and mutual support among Nigerian artists, especially when they find themselves abroad. “When artists from here meet each other outside the country, there’s unity, because when we’re out there, nobody can touch us, no one can misbehave. Everyone is supporting each other and that’s the thing,” Ruger observed. This camaraderie in foreign lands starkly contrasts with the competitive and sometimes envious nature of relationships within the local scene, underscoring the importance of solidarity among artists.
Ruger’s insights offer a fresh perspective on navigating the complexities of the music industry, highlighting the need for genuine support and the elimination of jealousy to foster healthier professional relationships. His emphasis on individual character and mutual respect serves as a valuable lesson for upcoming and established artists alike, advocating for a more united and supportive music community.
