Celebrated Nollywood actor and filmmaker Odunlade Adekola has penned an emotionally charged birthday tribute to his wife, Ruth, affectionately known as Deaconess LAKA, marking her special day on November 2nd with an outpouring of love that has resonated throughout the industry.
The revered actor, known for his dynamic performances and directorial prowess, took to Instagram to celebrate his wife in a series of posts that revealed the depth of their connection. In his characteristic blend of warmth and reverence, Adekola described his wife as “wonderful, lovely, sexy, adorable, gorgeous, and God-fearing,” painting a picture of a partnership that balances earthly affection with spiritual devotion.
What makes this celebration particularly noteworthy is how Adekola seamlessly wove together traditional Yoruba prayers with contemporary expressions of love. In one post, he proclaimed in Yoruba, “AYO RE A MA PO SI. EWA OLORUN LAYE RE KONI DI AWA TI,” translating to powerful wishes for increasing joy and enduring beauty, before playfully referring to himself as “the most gentleman” in relation to his wife.
The actor’s devotion took on an additional layer of significance as he incorporated spiritual elements into his celebration, addressing his wife by her religious title “Deaconess” while offering profound prayers for her continued well-being. His declaration that “We will not cry over you in Jesus’ name” reflects a deep-seated cultural and spiritual awareness that resonates with many Nigerians.
The celebration quickly transformed into an industry-wide affair as prominent Nollywood figures joined in honoring Mrs. Adekola. The outpouring of well-wishes from celebrities demonstrated the couple’s respected position within the entertainment community. Notable actresses including Mercy Aigbe, who addressed the celebrant as “Mummy D4,” and veteran performer Fausat Balogun added their voices to the chorus of celebratio
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The response from fellow industry professionals was particularly notable for its warmth and sincerity. Actress Bimpe Akintunde’s description of Ruth as “my blessed woman” and Yomi Fash Lanso’s eloquent wish for “abundant prospects” reflected the genuine regard in which the Adekolas are held within the Nollywood community. The consistent use of respectful terms like “ma” and “mama” by younger colleagues highlighted the traditional values that still govern relationships within the industry.
This public celebration of their marriage stands out in an era where celebrity relationships often make headlines for less positive reasons. The Adekolas’ relationship appears to represent a blend of traditional values and modern partnership that many find inspiring. Odunlade’s comfort in publicly expressing both admiration for his wife’s physical beauty and respect for her spiritual character presents a refreshing narrative in celebrity marriage stories.
The actor’s declaration of his wife as both “sexy” and “God-fearing” in the same breath challenges conventional narratives about religious conservatism in Nigerian society, suggesting a more nuanced understanding of marriage that embraces both physical attraction and spiritual connection. This balanced perspective has earned praise from fans and colleagues alike, who see in the Adekolas a model for modern Nigerian marriages.
The celebration has also highlighted the strong support network within the Nollywood community, particularly within the Yoruba sector of the industry. The response from colleagues, ranging from veteran actors to rising stars, demonstrates how personal celebrations often strengthen professional bonds within the entertainment community.
As the celebration continues, the Adekolas’ story serves as a reminder of the enduring power of public expressions of love and appreciation in strengthening marital bonds. In an industry often characterized by dramatic storylines and sensational headlines, this genuine display of affection and respect offers a refreshing narrative of stability and devotion.
The outpouring of love for Ruth Adekola on her birthday not only celebrates her as an individual but also stands as a testament to the impact that strong, supportive partnerships can have within Nigeria’s entertainment industry. As the celebrations continue, the Adekolas’ relationship continues to inspire both within and beyond the confines of Nollywood.
